Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Book Review: Cat Daddy by Jackson Galaxy


While there may be many books about cats out there, few are written by men, especially a tall, balding, earring wearing man with a goatee, and arms covered in thick sleeves of tattoos. Coming tomorrow to cat lovers everywhere is Jackson Galaxy’s new book, Cat Daddy: What the World’s Most Incorrigible Cat Taught Me About Life, Love, and Coming Clean. I was super excited to get a chance to review Galaxy’s book before it came out for the public.
               
Available on Amazon.com!

What can you expect to find in Galaxy’s book? How Jackson started working with Spirit Essences, that before he was bald he had dreadlocks (and read what he did with them when he cut them off), his food addiction, the Cat I Love You method and most important, the impact of his cat Benny, on his life.
               
When Iinterviewed Jackson Galaxy in January, Jackson told me: “Basically the cat in the book, Benny was dying and our time together was ending. I was just struck by how his presence in my life guided my knowledge about cats and the work I do with them and the techniques I have worked on and the theories that I have used.”

“And in our time together [Benny] was there to witness and help turn me around. I just told him at that point that I just wanted to honor him and would write about him. It’s our story about our life together and how the techniques became shaped by my life with him. It’s a memoir but there are a bunch of tips and how to’s with things inspired by him,” he said.

If you’re looking for a typical cat book, this ain’t your cup of tea. If you’re looking for the story of how cats can change people and shape our lives – then this book is for you.

Cat Daddy is available on Amazon.com here.
               
I started reading Cat Daddy the day it came in the mail...Henry enjoyed reading it too!

This book was sent to me by the publisher. Receiving the complimentary copy did not influence my review.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

"Cat Girl's Day Off": Interview with Kimberly Pauley


Being able to communicate with cats would make my life so much easier. Who wouldn’t want to know when their cats are actually hungry, when the litter box is too dirty to use, or when someone is not giving kitty enough attention.  In Kimberly Pauley’s new book, Cat Girl’s Day Off, she explores the life of Natalie Ng, whose ‘Talent’ is being able to talk to cats.

Set in present day Chicago, Cat Girl’s Day Off starts off with Natalie and her cat Meep discussing the Class A Talents of Nat’s family. Dad has super smell, Mom has laser vision and ability to retain extraneous information; twelve-year-old sister Emmy has the highest IQ in the Western Hemisphere, and older sister Viv has truth divination, levitation and X-ray vision. Viv and her dad work at the Bureau of Extrasensory Regulation and Management (BERM). All Nat can do is talk to cats, a “Class D – as in totally dumb – talent,” as she puts it. However, Nat’s talent sure comes in handy when a well known blogger, Easton West, goes missing…and the only one who can help Nat find her is Easton’s cat, Tiddlywinks.

Cover of the book. Image from Facebook.
Being a huge reader, and a fan of Kimberly Pauley’s Sucks to be Me series, I ordered Cat Girl’s Day Off when Amazon emailed me a recommendation for it. After finishing the book and absolutely loving it, I got to interview Kimberly Pauley and pick her brain about Cat Girl’s Day Off!


Cat Girl’s Day Off has a plot line based on Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, what inspired the Ferris Bueller take?
“Um…my random brain? Seriously, the original nugget of an idea didn’t have anything to do with Ferris Bueller or movies or anything. It went through several iterations until I finally chanced upon the idea of working in Ferris (which is one of the most awesome movies of all time). Then it really took off,” said Pauley.
“I was living in the Chicago suburbs (like Ferris) at the time and knew I wanted to set the book there and then once I figured out how Nat (the main character) was going to get pulled into this crazy madcap adventure, the movie led me to the locations where the action was going to take place. Most of it wound up at Wrigley Field, but I’d thought about incorporating some of the other movie locations as well originally.” She said.
I love the idea of “Talents.” Did you always wish you could understand what cats think?
“The talent was actually the first thing I had. The original idea was to think up some “useless” super powers and then go from there. I was thinking about a whole series of books, each told from a different person’s point of view and all of them having a really “stupid” power. I would actually love to be able to talk to cats. I think they’d have lots of things to say about…well, about everything,” Pauley said.
My cat Pearl wishes she could hang out with Meep, Rufus and PD!
In Cat Girl’s Day Off because Nat can talk to cats, the readers learn that the cats have an actual name, and the name given to them by their people. Readers learn that Easton’s cat, Tiddlywinks, is really named Rufus Brutus the Third.
How did you come up with the idea of cats being called a name by their person, but having a different name – such as Tiddlywinks being Rufus Brutus the Third?
“I can’t say I came up with that originally. It was T.S. Eliot that said that cats had three names: one everyday name, one particular/peculiar name and lastly:
But above and beyond there's still one name left over,
   And that is the name that you never will guess;
The name that no human research can discover -
   But THE CAT HIMSELF KNOWS, and will never confess.
When you notice a cat in profound meditation,
   The reason, I tell you, is always the same:
His mind is engaged in a rapt contemplation
   Of the thought, of the thought, of the thought of his name:
       His ineffable effable
       Effanineffable
Deep and inscrutable singular Name.

Image from Facebook.
That’s from the poem The Naming of Cats from Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats. You know the Broadway play Cats? It’s based on that collection of poetry. Definitely worth a read for cat lovers,” said Pauley.
The main cats in the book, Meep, Rufus and Purr Daddy always have great, witty banter between them. Did you find it hard to write in the voice of the cats? Is there anything you did to prepare to write in their voices?
“Perhaps sadly (just ask my husband), I had no trouble been cat-snarky. I’m probably part cat myself,” she said. No worries Kimberly, we all like to think we know what our cats would say if they could talk!
It seems that all authors put a part of themselves in their books, in which character do you most identify yourself?
Well, like Nat, I am also half-Chinese. And short. And a bit quirky. So probably her. Though I do SO love Oscar. He’s based on a few friends of mine that I knew in high school and college. Some people will probably think he’s a bit over the top, but he’s actually pretty tame compared to some of the friends I had…
 Is there a question that you’ve wanted to be asked in interviews, but have never been asked before?

Yes. “Would you like to have dinner with Johnny Depp?” I’m sure you can guess what the answer to that question would be.

Only kind of kidding…always seemed like he would be an interesting guy to talk with (at least based on his choice of movie roles and you gotta love a guy who’s not afraid of eyeliner and wears so many hats so well). Though I did have dinner once with Harry Harrison (one of the grand masters of science fiction) at a convention and I’d love to do that again. He’s awesome.


or follow her on Twitter: www.twitter.com/KimberlyRPauley

This review is solely my opinion. I was not given a copy of this book to review, but did so of my own accord.


Friday, April 27, 2012

Meet Gwen Cooper - Author and Blind Cat Activist


Homer is blind, strong, and smart and has an…epic tail? No, not that Homer…I’m talking about Homer the Blind Wonder Cat! The story of Homer the cat is a very special and true story. Written by Gwen Cooper, Homer is a story about an eyeless cat, and how he changed Gwen’s life for the better.

Homer had “a virulent eye infection [that] required the surgical removal of both his eyes,” the reader learns in the first chapter of Homer’s Odyssey. However, Homer’s story is not a sad one – Homer lives with Gwen presently.

 Each chapter of Homer starts off with a quote from Homer from The Odyssey, also followed by a picture of Homer the cat. The reader soon becomes enamored with Homer’s happiness and lust for life. Perching on the edge of the toilet seat and catching flies in his mouth, mid-air!

Homer in his glory. Image from www.gwencooper.com.

At what moment did Gwen decide to write Homer’s Odyssey, and how did she come up with the title?

“I first came up with the idea when I read about the sale of Dewey to Grand Central (Dewey's publisher).  I thought I have a pretty cool cat!  I wonder if I could write a book about him!  The title came to me instantaneously and I never considered any alternatives.  But it still took about a year until I had a proposal I thought could realistically be shown to anybody,” Gwen said.

Though Homer’s Odyssey is the main title of the book, it is followed by the subtitle: A Fearless Feline Tale, or How I Learned About Love and Life with a Blind Wonder Cat.

What made Gwen realize Homer's story could be a book? She wasn’t sure for the longest time.

“I didn't know what the narrative through-line would be that would make it an actual book instead of just a collection of anecdotes.  When [my husband] Laurence proposed to me, I remembered that I had adopted Homer right after a major break-up, and then I realized that that would be the story,” said Gwen.

Gwen wrote Homer’s Odyssey so that it “is a book that would begin with a break-up and end with a wedding, and in between would be the ten years of discovery and transition for both Homer and [Gwen] between those two events.”

Writers all have different processes they go through to complete their books.

“I don't write every day.  I've found that sometimes, when I'm stuck, the best thing to do is to get away from the computer and do something completely different.  On the show Mad Men, there's a great scene where Don Draper, the creative director of an ad agency, gives advice to a junior copywriter who's suffering from writer's block.  He tells her, ‘Think about it deeply, and then forget it.  The answers will come.’  I've always found that to be true,” Gwen said.

But like all people, Gwen knows when to write, when to procrastinate, and when to be serious.
“Of course, the trick is knowing the difference between times when you really do have to stop writing for a few days and times when you're just procrastinating.  I can't say I always stay on the right side of that line, but I do always try!”

The most exciting thing about authors with great books is when they decide to write a new book! Gwen and Homer have been posting on Facebook about the new book Gwen has coming out in January 2013. You can preorder LoveSaves the Day on Amazon.


“LOVE SAVES THE DAY is a work of fiction and is about a made-up cat named Prudence.  She narrates about two-thirds of the book, and her two humans take turns narrating the other third.  Basically it's a story about a woman and her grown daughter who have an estranged relationship, and Prudence is the bridge between them.  Prudence is based a good deal on Scarlett, and I'm just wildly in love with her.  I hope readers will be too!”  It’s not hard to see that Gwen is very enthusiastic and excited about her new book. So are we!

Many cat bloggers and writers post every day about their cats’ activities. I wondered if it is hard for Gwen to “share” Homer with the world.

“It's interesting how many readers have come to feel that Homer is ‘their cat’ too.  It means that when I write about Homer and things that are going on in our lives, I get deluged with advice and feedback.  Mostly, though, this has been overwhelmingly positive.  So many of my readers have a lot more experience with cats then I do, and they tend to have ideas that I wouldn't have. 

Still, it's odd sometimes to look at Homer napping on the couch and think that there are thousands of people all over the world who love him.  He's just my little cat!  But, of course, since the book came out he's become more than just my cat.  It's amazing to think about.” She said.

Homer is just Gwen's little cat, who made a big impact in her life. Image from www.gwencooper.com.
Being a New York Times Best Selling Author may not have the paparazzi following Gwen around daily, but she has been recognized when she is out and about.

“Very rarely--maybe once or twice.  Being "author famous" isn't like being famous famous.  I have friends who've known me forever who occasionally say things like, "How weird is it that you're famous now?"  And I always say, "And yet, when I go to the grocery store, they treat me just like I was a regular person!"  That's my little joke, the point being, of course, that I'm really not famous at all. 

The only time I come close to feeling like I am is when I do a reading and a few hundred people show up--but, even then, I feel like they're there for the book and not for me, personally,” Gwen said.

One of the wonderful ideas that have come with Homer’s Odyssey is taking the prejudice often found with adopting blind cats. Living with Homer, has given Gwen strong motivation to help promote blind cat adoption. What’s her advice for people unsure of adopting a blind cat?

“Blind cats do very, very well, and blindness by itself is no reason to either not adopt a cat or "put down" a cat who has gone blind.  I always say that, at the end of the day, a blind cat is just like any other cat, and just as capable of loving you and living a wonderful life.

Homer is like any other cat, when getting into mischief. Image from www.gwencooper.com.

Being a successful author can be measured in many ways. How many copies of books have been sold, number of fans you have on Facebook or how many people show up to a book signing.

“I'm still not sure that I [feel successful]!  It's a cliché, but it's absolutely true, that success is a horizon line that keeps receding no matter how close you think you're getting to it.  I never take it for granted that just because Homer's Odyssey had done well, my future books will also do well.  Success is something I get up every morning prepared to work hard for.

And of course, the best interview question is saved for last: is there a question that you've wanted to be asked in interviews, but have never been asked before?

“People never seem to ask about my husband, Laurence.  So I'd like to take a moment to acknowledge him and the amazing "cat dad" he's grown into since my cats and I first moved in with him seven years ago.  When Vashti and Scarlett became ill in their last years (Vashti with chronic renal failure and Scarlett with cancer), I literally couldn't have done everything I needed to do to take care of them on my own.  When we were dating, Laurence wasn't sure he could live with three cats.  But when things got bad and I was beside myself with worry and grief, Laurence was incredibly gentle and compassionate and never once complained--or was anything less than cheerful--about helping me out with some of the difficult and unpleasant things that had to be done.  He's a remarkable and loving man.” Gwen said.

Make sure you find Homer on Facebook!  You can read Gwen’s blog here.

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Blog The Change

Today's post is special, because it is sponsored by Blog the Change for Animals. I am writing about a cause that is dear to my heart - volunteering for a rescue group.
  • What have you done to Be the Change for Animals? Most teenagers would not be willing to spend every Friday night volunteering with their parents, to adopt out cats. But I am not like most teenagers. I have been volunteering with Lost Dog and Cat Rescue Foundation since 2005 and helping out in many ways.
                    I have been able to learn many lessons that have made me a better person. When I volunteer, I interact with potential adopters, volunteers, and adults. I am able to answer questions people might have, conduct adopter interviews, play with the cats and help take care of them by cleaning their enclosures and feeding them.
                    While volunteering, I have helped save many lives. At an event one night, a cat’s spay incision came open and her internal organs fell out. Along with the other volunteers, I was able to get the cat to calm down and get her to the vet. Acting quickly in an emergency situation helped save a cat’s life.  I have also helped socialize cats by fostering them in my room. I play with the cats so they get used to people and can go to an adopter. Many cats come into the rescue very scared and need someone patient to work wit hthem.
                    My experiences with the rescue have been very beneficial to me. I am able to have conversations with adults as well as conduct myself in a manner in which adults will take me seriously. I enjoy volunteering with the rescue because I know it makes a difference to the animals that I help save. 
Gizmo, the one eyed kitty who was adopted with her one eyed sister, Sooty (below). Two of the many wonderful cats that I had the pleasure of working with, until they went to their forever home.

  • Who do you know who acts tirelessly on animals’ behalf? Perhaps my favorite part of volunteering for the rescue, is that I don't do it alone; I volunteer with my family and friends. My mom, dad, brother and friends we have made while doing rescue, always join us on Friday nights to volunteer. It is nice knowing that not only that I have my family and friends behind me, but also we share in the reward when we see the animals we take care of, get adopted and go to a loving home.

  • What favorite cause has a special need right now? The best part about volunteering is that we always need more help. Whether we are in need of more volunteers, fosters or caretakers of the cats in the PetSmart adoption center, help is always needed. 

Friday, April 13, 2012

Lucky Friday the 13th Cats

Black cats + Friday the 13th = A massive stereotype. Why is it that black cats always get a bad rap and an even worse connotation on Friday the 13th. Well here at Sandpiper Cat, we consider it lucky to come across a black cat on Friday the 13th! (and a calico too, because Piper is one).

Sabrina!

My lucky black cat

Lucky Piper

Piper and mommy (and Bean in the background!)

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Piper's First Official Vet Visit

Don't get the wrong idea from the post title - Piper has been to the vet before, back in March and April of last year when she had to have her emergency spay and subsequent check up. 

However, this was Piper's first visit to our official vet. Of course, this wasn't a planned vet trip...

Wednesday afternoon my mom noticed Piper was squint and keeping her right eye closed. We try not to be over-reactionary, but we decided to make a vet appointment to get her eye looked out. I made sure I was available to be there when Piper went to the vet, because she is my baby! I always keep a close watch one her, and I was very concerned that something was wrong with her eye.

Piper being examined by Dr. Ellison
 I noticed while Piper was being examined, that one of her whiskers fell out! I love finding their whiskers. I stuck it in the blue folder (okay so I'm a little weird, but didn't you see Catsparella's post with the people who collect whiskers?)




Piper getting a numbing eye drop.
Dr. E taking a closer look at Piper's eyes.
 The vet felt that Piper's eyes were a little inflamed, most likely from another cat and her having a rough play. She wrote down a list of suggested ointments for us to apply to Piper's eye for a day - so it will be cleared up soon! What a relief! 

Piper had the rest of her exam and got her shots, as well as a nail trim and getting a horrible matt removed (poor long haired cats). 

Piper is a very healthy cat - 9.6 pounds! She is now a little shy of two years old. I was glad that Pipes was healthy and doing well, and that her eye was nothing to worry about. She will  be back to her old self in no time.

Meanwhile...I think we may have caught the bloody-pawed culprit...
Busted!!

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Book Review: Forever Paws by Christine Davis

For anyone who has lost a pet, it is known that it is like losing a family member. There aren’t really the right words to say to them that will take the pain away. So when there are no words to be said, why not send a comforting book? Forever Paws by Christine Davis is a book that will comfort the grieving.

People say that cats leave paw prints on your heart. In Christine Davis’ new book, Forever Paws, cats and dogs have forever paws – “a gift that will one day light your way back to the four-legged friend who loves you.”

Forever Paws also talks about animals taking a little piece of your heart on a ribbon, when they leave you. The idea of animals taking a piece of your heart is so true. Every time I have lost a beloved animal, part of my heart leaves with them.  Your heart never truly recovers from the loss.

The beloved pets drink out of the river of tears, a beautiful image to think of, when you’re sad and missing your companion.



In my life, I have lost 3 of my own cats, and 4 fosters. Ashley and Marsh, the first two cats I ever had (they were my dad’s cats before he even married my mom!) and my kitten Parker who I lost to FIP. And then the four foster kittens I lost in June 2011 when they were exposed to VS-FCV, Virulent Strain Feline Calici Virus.

While reading Forever Paws, I was reminded of all of my pets that I have lost. The grief is never completely gone, even when the feelings are stirred up years later. The loss can still feel recent, even if it’s been over 6 years since I lost Parker. I still think about him whenever I see my cats May and Henry curled up. May and Parker were buddies who loved to hang out and play.  And Henry, who we got 3 days after Parker died. Those three days were lonely and left a void in our hearts.


Forever Paws is also illustrated by Christine. The book is full of vibrant colors and has something to smile about on every page.

You can visit Christine’s website at Lighthearted Press. Forever Paws along with Christine’s other books are available for purchase.

I highly recommend Forever Paws if you have lost a beloved cat, or know a friend or family member struggling with the loss of their beloved pet.  


Sandpiper Cat was not compensated for this review, but we were given a free copy of Forever Paws to review.